Comments for Suzannah

Comment on The New York Strangler by Charles

Charles — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:49:31 +0000

The ‘On All Fours’ item made for a great prequel. Your previous piece on this ‘The New York Strangler’ had left me with a couple of intriguing and unanswered questions, everything now has cleverly come into focus.

I love the style and unpredictability of your writings, I build vivid mental pictures of the characters, settings and acts, some of which, make me feel uncomfortable which is all part of the escapism I seek and come back for,

Charles.

Comment on On All Fours by Suzannah

Suzannah — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 21:05:38 +0000

Agreed–proper preparation is essential in anal play, as with many forms of kink. As an end note to the story, E was thankfully aware enough to realize that one bad experience doesn’t define all experiences. Ultimately, he didn’t make a big deal of it and said he was glad he tried it.

Comment on On All Fours by Quondam BP

Quondam BP — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 15:50:30 +0000

This is a topic I’ve been thinking about a lot lately– I’ve been doing anal play (on both ends of the dildo or buttplug) for about three years and am now getting an adventurous but nervous young woman started on her anal training program, so we’ve been talking about it a lot. The two main worries that people have are pain (of course) and making a mess. I actually think the second is a bigger fear with most people –myself very much included–than the first. There are a bunch of things that can be done to deal with the mess issue, and although it can never be entirely eliminated, it can generally be managed to make the event pretty tidy.

I don’t find enemas (wet or dry) erotic in themselves, but a clean asshole leads to confidence and a calmer attitude by the receptive partner, both of which lead to relaxed muscles and easy breathing–so I actually think there is a direct link between preparation and minimizing, or even eliminating, physical discomfort. In the event you recounted, I suspect that aside from the pain, E bolted off to the bathroom because he was worried that he’d made a mess. And for most of us, even pervs, that is not hot.

The potential discomfort can be minimized–it requires patience, LOTS of lube, a bit of body knowledge, and a few different plugs or dildos of graduated thickness and length, but it can be done. And I think it is worth it too– I imagine that E, like many people whose first anal go was not good because perhaps overly aggressive, will forever be skittish about receptive anal play, and that’s really too bad. It’s pretty fun, and there is a great sense of pride and (ahem) fulfillment in being able to number oneself and one’s protegee among the legion of happy anal sluts.

Cheers, Suzannah, and congrats on an ever-better blog.

Comment on On All Fours by Suzannah

Suzannah — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 22:38:10 +0000

…I’ve heard that strap-on play is particularly popular in dungeons and with many independent pro-doms and suspect that people who seek kinky play are inclined to go that route, rather than see an escort. I personally would like to bridge the gap between kink and companionship, I see a niche for high-end fetish play going unfulfilled. E was the first guy I’ve ass-fucked (although he was not a client) and have done some basic anal training personally. On the receiving end, I’m still undecided as to how much I like it and tend to keep experimentation to people I trust and have known for a while. Would definitely like to try some girl action though!

Comment on On All Fours by Nicholette

Nicholette — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 05:23:49 +0000

Oh snap, Suzannah! A woman of my own heart!

Not long ago, I had an ongoing client of mine who wanted us to explore strap-on play. We’d discussed every detail of our engagement, initially. He has submissive tendencies, (he’s not a complete sub) but with proper grooming he’s getting there. He loves being in his strait jacket which he’d purchased. I strapped him in his jacket, and afterward fucked his tiny ass. He, too, couldn’t take the hurt from being fucked in the ass, and sadly it wasn’t a strap-on; it was an anal plug that I’d purchased prior. Even though we didn’t get to explore the depths of our anal play-date, I loved the fact that he allowed us to explore the unknown togother.

Oh how I wish more men would participate in this wild adventure and explore their submissive desires.

I’ve enjoyed quite a few of strap-on sessions in my lifetime; even with females. Have you?

Comment on Sociopathworld by Suzannah

Suzannah — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 19:14:49 +0000

…I’ve heard this statistic too. I’ve also heard that in Asian countries, the percentage is closer to one in a hundred, partly due to the more community-centered culture.

Comment on Sociopathworld by Nicholette

Nicholette — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 13:56:07 +0000

Funnily, I read a book “The Sociopath Next Door” -by Dr. Martha Stout, and it gave a detailed description of the different types of sociopaths that are living amongst us. As Charles noted above, such mental illness affects 1 in every 25 person (or every other person that you do pass on the street has some form of sociopathic tendencies). Scary!